Is It True Love Exist?

Yes, it’s finally happened. You are now in a situation that you think you’ve found the person of your dreams, and now… you’re hopeless in love! “Or are you”? May you be able to ask yourselves “is this the right person for me”? Many people start out by having a crush or attract with someone and then they fall in love with that person. But sometimes people get crushes and stay with someone even though they never fall in love with them. That can cause big problems. Don’t get me wrong… crushes or attract with someone can be a lot of fun. It’s only a problem when you mistake a crush for love.

So how can you tell if it’s really love? Will let’s consider the differences between attraction, infatuation and real love.

Well what is attraction? Attraction is based on what you see. You know, how a person looked and acts. Many people believe in “love in first sight” there's nothing wrong about that but the problem is, what you see isn’t always what you get, and it brings you feel disappointed or hurt your feelings when you expect beyond those limits.

How about infatuation? Infatuation is not only about what you see, it’s about how you feel. You may have romantic feelings, but those feeling can be change instantly. Infatuation may seem like love, but because it’s base only on how you feel at the moment it can just fall apart.

So how do you know if it’s really love? One that will last?Real loves doesn't look for it's own interest and doesn’t care about body type, looks or wallet size, it based on how you respect, care, compromise and trust. Real loves grows when two people are kind, hardworking and share the same spiritual outlook.  For examples, that guy you like so much, how does he handle money? What his plan in your relationship? Does he have working towards them? Or he all talk and no action? And what about that girl that you can’t stop thinking? Who are her friends? And how does she treat them? How does she treat her family? What kind of daughter she is? There's a lot to learn about another person, it takes time! So before you make a decision, remember: Attraction is based on what you see, you know how she or he looks and act, infatuation is based on what you feel but those feelings can be easily change. But real love is based on what you know.